Kisah dia di satu hari yang lalu...

"Ibu...come, come.." ucap kaseh sambil menarik tangan ibu dan berjalan ke arah kabinet dapur.. " "ket..ket" ucapnya sekali lagi.. cuma kali ini jari kecilnya menuding ke arah satu kabinet yang menjadi peti simpanan coklat..hahahah... malangnya, permintaan anak kecil itu tidak mendapat layanan dari ibunya.. *wah...ayat macam dalam novel kan??hihihihi..*

inila anak kecil yang tidak mendapat layanan mesra dari ibunya bila dia berkehendakkan coklat..wakakak...

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Entry picnic and tanpa motif..huhh??? ntahla, apa2 je la labu..

Harini pergi picnic di Sogsvann bersama family auntie Rima, auntie normah, uncle azran, abg azmir and satu lagi pasangan husband and wife yang baru je menjejakkan kaki ke Oslo hari Rabu yang lepas.. further study katanya.. :) welcome to the 2nd most expensive city in the world for the year of 2010!!! hahahah...naik taraf lagi Oslo ni.. memangla sangat terasa.. tak yah compare dengan Msia..cukup dengan Sweeden jelah.. last week kebetulan auntie Linda ke Sweeden, jadi ibu kirim la barang basah pada auntie..sebab memang semua sedia maklum kat sana jauh lebih murah.. untuk barang2 yang ibu kirim (ayam 4 ekor, sosej 10 pack and nugget 2 pack) hanya 252 norwegian kroner.. well, ayam kat sweeden baru 37 sweedish kroner.. kalau kat oslo ni.. biasanya beli seekor dalam 45-55 norwegian kroner.. approximately around 25-30 ringgi msia.. itu baru ayam..cuba kalau beli 4 ekor ayam, mau 180-220 norwegian kroner.. tu baru ayam je tau.. belom barang2 lain yang dikirim.. kan ke jauh bezanya tu??? tapi nak buat macam mana kan.. redha je la.. cuma biasanya memang akan kirim pada kawan2 yang akan ke boader untuk stock up balik barang2 basah.. or else, ayah la terpaksa pergi naik bas.. :) kalaula duduk kat msia dengan kemampuan sekarang.. alangkah indahnya.. boleh pakai bmw 3 series gaknya..wakakak..yo2 o jerk..tak kuasa.. kereta2 begitu sangatla mahal harganya di Msia.. tax je mungkin dah 70-100%..tak ke gila tu namanya??? kalau beli kat sini baru 100k++ ringgit msia..tapi takpe, tak kisah pun pasal kereta..kalau diberi pilihan kereta besar @ rumah yang selesa.. i'll go for rumah yang besar dan selesa.. yeah, mungkin rumah tu tak boleh nak diusung macam kereta.. and orang takde la nampak rumah tu.. tapi untuk apa pulak nak orang nampak kan?? yang penting kita selesa.. ada orang lain mungkin prefer kereta besar dan gah tapi rumah yang biasa2.. apapun, terpulang pada individu tu sendiri.. tapi pengalaman ibu dan ayah dulu memang macam tu la.. since sebelum decide untuk beli our 'desa' hampir 3 tahun yg lepas..memang awal2 ayah dah ingatkan.. kalau kami takkan dapat hidup bermewah2 once beli rumah tu.. kehidupan adalah seperti sedia kala.. but ibu tak kisah.. ok je..no problemo.. bukanla sesak pun..cuma ayah kata takdela nak bercuti jauh2 ke beli barang mahal2 ke.. na, i didnt mind at all pun semua tu.. yang penting rumah yang kami dan bakal anak2 duduk adalah selesa.. hurmmm..apa khabar rumah tu sekarang ek?? duhai hati..sabar la yer.. sebab semua orang sedar kenyataannya kalau orang lain takkan mungkin akan pelihara harta benda kita sepertimana kita pelihara dengan sendirinya.. merosak dan mendowngradekan rumah tu daripada keadaan asalnya lagi adala.. *mode sangat kecewa di sini* arrrghhhhhh...stress bila ingat pasal rumah ni... dahla, malas nak ingat..malas nak fikir..nanti sakit hati, berdukalara...menangis tak berlagu.. tapi in return tak dapat apa2 pun.. maklumla..cuma menumpang di tepian gantang kan.. huhu..kayla, stopla pasal tu sebab dada dah berombak dah..maksudnya perasaan tak best dah mula menyentap tangkai hati ibu..

hurmm..by the way, seronok tengok kamu enjoy swimming..tapi malangnya tak boleh berlama2 sebab air sangatla sejuk+ matahari yang malu2 itik nak muncul.. dah sampai menggigil2, biru2 dah.. paksa gak keluarkan kamu dari keseronokan berendam tu.. walaupun park tu tercemar dengar jeritan tangis kamu..hahahha... takpela, tadi ayah kata ayah nak bawa kamu ke tempat lain.. mungkin ok sket kot.. hurmmm..kalau kat umah kl boleh berendam kat swimming pool kan.. selama mana..tapi panas menyengat la pulak.. habis legam kamu lepas tu..hahaha..takpela, next time kita gi mandi2 lagi eh... kayla, dah ketandusan idea nak merewang apa.. now ni pun macam malas nak update blog ni.. ntah kenapa, ibu pun tak pasti.. sayang kamu selamanya..

Bangun pagi...gosok gigi..sarapan pagi..main pasir lagi.. =))

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What's on my mind 7

Ibu rasa kecewa, sakit hati, makan hati, menyampah and macam2 lagi perasaan yang tak seronok sekarang ni.. yang pasti menyesal!!!!! i hate to feel this way..this is kind of bullshit!! i hate this..hate!! Ibu bukan hati batu atau hati kering yang bila orang buat apa2 pada ibu atau pada orang sekeliling ibu..yang sangat2 tak best, menyakitkan mata dan hati..ibu boleh buat tak tau, buat bodoh.. puas dah cuba tapi tiap kali perkara tu bermain di fikiran, tiap kali tu la rasa marah, benci, sakit hati, tak puas hati membuak2.. cuma malang bila orang yang bertanggungjawab untuk semua tu cuma buat tak tau, buat bodoh, buat kepala, buat tak malu dan segala macam mak nenek moyang perasaan orang yang tak bertamadun.. hati ni sakit sangat2.. ntahla.. cuma jauh dalam sudut hati bersyukur sebab ayah kamu, suami ibu bukan dikalangan orang2 yang tak bertamadun dan tak beradab sopan.. ego juga bertempat.. kalaula selama ni cuma satu sebab je yang memungkinkan hati ibu lembut bila ada masanya diri ni dalam persimpangan untuk memutuskan sesuatu.. tapi mungkin sesuatu tu juga akan kurang mempengaruhi dalam setiap keputusan selepas ni..

All the best Ayah Su!!

muka budak baru bangun tidur, pastu nangis then nak cakap phone pulak ngan ayah su.. haihhh...

apapun, all the best for ayah su.. study elok2 yer!! anything let us know.. ;) we miss you ayah su.. :)

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DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

Blogwalking tadi..saja klik pada blogger id yang meninggalkan komen di blog ayah..ibu suka article ni..

DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?
This is a very good article.

Those who are still single may learn something from here.
Those who are already married may take it as a guideline to improve your marriage...

During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said, "How do I know if I married the right person?"
I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, "It depends. Is that your husband?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?"

Here's the answer.
EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love... Because it's happening TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Think about the imagery of that __expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience.

But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, could drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?" And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.

Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work,a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.

But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could.
And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.. Because (listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the __expression "the labor of love." Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.

Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable. .. you can "make" love.

Love in marriage is indeed a "decision"... Not just a feeling.


Remember this always:

"God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go." So, spent your lifetime finding out the loveable things about your spouse so that you could LOVE your spouse everyday in every way in an EVERLASTING marriage. That is why granpa's love to your granma seems so PURE.

Remember, you are with the "RIGHT" person. If not, you wouldn't have wanted to marry your spouse at the very first place.

Ya Allah,
Andai semua itu tidak layak bagi kami,
maka cukupkanlah permohonan kami dengan Redha-Mu,
Jadikanlah kami sebagai suami isteri yang saling mencintai dikala dekat,
saling menjaga kehormatan dikala jauh,
saling menghibur dikala duka,
saling mengingati dikala bahagia,
saling mendoa dalam kebaikan dan ketaqwaan,
saling menyempurna dalam hal ibadat.

Ya Allah,

Sempurnakanlah kebahagiaan kami dengan menjadikan pernikahan ini sebagai ibadah kepada-Mu dan bukti pengikutan dan cinta kami kepada Sunnah Rasul-Mu...… Amin...…

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KIRIS @ kek coklat..

Bangun pagi hari ni dengan tangkas dan pantas ibu prepare bahan2 untuk buat kek coklat. Plan nak bawa ke rumah Uncle Zukri petang ni. Saje datang melawat.. boleh la Kaseh bermain bersama Anas.. :)

Bahan-bahan untuk kek coklat..

anak kecil berbaju merah merupakan 3rd chef di rumah ni yer... ;)

Ok..dah siap.. boleh la bakar dalam oven dengan kepanasan suhu 170 selama sejam atau sehingga masak yer.. :)

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